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Looking For Love Online When I attended The New Sun fundraiser in New York, I had the chance to meet a lot of interesting people. Each one of them asked how I was connected to the publication. I told them that I write technology columns. Many times, the conversations would then focus on technology, then work their way to the Internet and dating. Most of the people I spoke to were down on the idea of looking for love online. To some degree, I agree with them. The Internet can help people get together, however, anyone looking for prospective dating partners online should proceed very carefully. Be A Skeptic Don't Take It Too Seriously
If you respond to personal ads, be aware that everyone is not going to write back. Some women, especially if their ads have attractive-looking pictures, will receive literally dozens of e-mail messages. They don't have time to write back to every single one; they'll just pick a select few and respond. If you don't "make the cut," try not to take it too personally. There could be any number of reasons you didn't get a reply. And, of course, you'll never know why exactly.
Some people will correspond with you for a while, then seem to vanish from the face of the earth. Why? Who knows? Perhaps they clicked better with someone else, and they didn't have the guts or courtesy to tell you. Maybe your "pen pal" is really attached to someone else, and he or she was writing to you to help deal with boredom.
Be Safe
Meeting your online buddy in person for the first time can be exciting. Don't let the excitement cloud your good judgment. The initial meeting should be in a public place, like a mall or restaurant. Make sure you have your own mode of transportation. It's not the best idea to have your date pick you up at home and do all the driving.
Have Other Strategies © 2003 Steve Seepersaud. Reprinted with permission. Links to previous "Tech Talk" columns: |